omg, can we talk about family for a sec? like, I'm almost at 1 month and feeling really good, but my mom just dropped this bomb on me about how "everything would be fine" if I just "got my life together" and moved back home. like, seriously?! she doesn't even see how much I am getting my life together right now, by staying clean and working through my stuff. it's so dismissive and makes me feel like my whole journey is just invisible to her. it's not like she's intentionally trying to be hurtful, but it just lands SO badly when you're fighting this hard. it's like, can you just acknowledge the battle I'm winning right now instead of giving me a new one?? ugh. it's exhaustin'.