I’ve got a question for y’all that I’m struggling to figure out and it’s part of me trying to recover from SH. Bc my friends say I need to accept I have trauma but I don’t think I do have trauma so here’s my question… Does being touched (squeezed, stroked) by a girl (my ex bsf) on bum, hips, boobs, inner thighs, waist, stomach while making comments about did I find her attractive and also fat shaming me (why don’t you have a thigh gap, wow your stomach sticks out a lot etc) without my consent count as sexual assault. Bc it was like very subtle and girls can be quite touchy and that’s what she told the few times I said I was uncomfortable- she’d be like oh this is normal for close friends it’s a sign of closeness