Okay, can we talk about how ANNOYING it is when people who have no idea what recovery is like try to give you "advice"? Like, "just don't drink!" DUH. Or "why don't you just try moderation?" If only it were that simple, right?! It's so frustrating because it totally dismisses the actual, incredibly DIFFICULT work we're all doing every single day. It's not a lack of willpower; it's a disease. Sometimes I just want to scream! How do you guys deal with those kinds of comments?