Man, family stuff can be SO tricky in recovery. My sister's birthday is coming up, and while I love her, there's always that pressure from certain relatives to "just have one" or "lighten up." It's like they don't get that it's literally not an option for me. It makes me wanna just avoid the whole thing sometimes, even though I know it's important to be there for her. I'm trying to figure out a game plan to protect my peace but still show up. It's a tricky balance, right? Feels like walking a tightrope.